Have you ever loved anyone? Love for anyone. If not, then you are just unaware of your true feelings. If yes then you must know how it feels to have somebody, who a few days ago you did not even know properly….but has become your top priority now. We begin to love and take care of him/her as if our life has no meaning without him/her. Sometimes we sacrifice our own happiness to bring a smile on his/her face. This is called love. An affection towards a person and doing everything possible to see him/her happy and satisfied. People all across the world have experienced this phase sometime in their life. There is reason why we do this... our every action is governed by some psychological tenets. We think we are enjoying this but subconsciously it is an attempt to bring our lives to a state of equilibrium. We always tend towards attaining a peace of mind.
This love for others is common in our life but we forget to include ourselves in that list. Our own needs and aspirations take a backseat under such situation. The truth is that we are the first and the last person who is responsible for our feelings. We as
a human being must learn to love ourselves if we want to do something great in
life. If you are not bothered about your own happiness, you are truly not
capable of making your life meaningful. For instance, if you are unhealthy, how
can you take care of others, forget about making them happy. It’s strange that
we can love anyone we like but can we love ourselves in a similar way ? It is
different from being mean because by default we all are selfish, I am talking
about something else. I am telling you to consider yourself, as valuable as the
person you love the most. Yes, that’s what great people do but it’s not so
easy. But if you do care for yourself, you will realize that most of the things
you are doing in your present life are purposeless, and then you will begin to
notice the things which are important for your own satisfaction and happiness.
This will be a new beginning in your life and now you will be able to do
whatever it takes you to reach your goals.
A life without purpose is as useless as a train without a destination. This life is a wonderful gift given to us by some divine force. Don't waste this life for the sake of others opinions. Your life is your message to the world, try to make it inspiring. By setting your aim, you will become more focused and enjoy the things that come in your way. Gradually you will make yourself someone who has achieved something great. You will make yourself unstoppable because now it’s not just about achievements, it’s about love.
